You have decided that you are not going to age like your mother did. You refuse to abide by the culturally entrenched norms of fat, frumpy, unsexy and well, just plain unhealthy. You want to travel, perhaps write a book, give back to society, be a blessing to others. You want to be able to enjoy a glass of wine, an hour long hike in the woods, a vacation in Italy. You’ve even thought about starting a new business. You have no need to look like you’re in your 20s anymore… but a waistline, a sharp wit and a libido that doesn’t need a search and rescue team… You’ll gladly take those things.